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Instant wife; Think I misplaced my mind
Topic Started: Apr 15 2013, 10:38 PM (5,268 Views)
cwatkin


I hate to tell you but you got off easy. She may be a gold digger or looking for an "upgrade" but she doesn't sound like one I ended up with when ended up being a complete psychopath. I seem to always attract interesting characters and this one was no exception. The stuff that happened is the basis for a book or movie and I am happy that I made it out of this relationship alive. Then, after all this, she files for a restraining order out of spite. Basically if you contact someone, even in a non-threatening manner, in the state of MO and that person has documentation that they requested no contact, that person can file for a restraining order.

Anyway, I have dated a couple crazies in the past and this one made it so they no longer even register on my scale compared to her. She used an alias, had a pre-paid phone she bought with cash at Wal-Mart, e-mail account to go along with that alias, and claimed to be divorced. Well, certain things started not adding up and I began to question her. She said she would never lie to me and was hurt I would even wonder about her and tried to pin all the problems back on me. Well, the short story is that she was still married to a CID agent in the U.S. Army who was off deployed or on TDY somewhere. When she broke up, she got into my computer and tried to erase any evidence of our relationship. She also accessed important personal and financial information. I conducted a forensic analysis of the computer to figure out exactly what she had done. Basically at this point everyone I know was very concerned and in the end, the husband found out the entire story about the relationship.

Then she decided to use the system as a weapon against me so I had to hire an attorney. I basically reported her to any agency I thought should be aware of her actions including the U.S. Army who I am sure didn't appreciate some of the information she freely shared. The woman should be in a federal prison but is out and about in the general population. I am pretty sure they just covered it up and swept it under the rug to protect one of their own.

I have never seen the movie "Gone Girl" as I cannot bring myself to see it but understand my situation is very similar to what happened in that movie. As for the who laws setting up restraining orders, it is so open to being abused it isn't even funny. I found out that this is quite common where a woman will file one just because the judge issues a temporary ex parte order that screws with the man and ability to do lots of things. Anyway, I am quite jaded about how our system is setup now so doubt I will ever have to worry about being picked for jury duty again. Basically I wouldn't be a robot blindly following along with some law I view as wrong and I will be the first one to tell them that.

After all the things she did to me, she then uses the system as a weapon against me. Talk about a load of crap. I say all kinds of odd signs when dating her but just ignored them, figuring she was still upset about her recent "divorce" and that they would go away. Now anytime I see any sign of crazy, my alarms trip with hair trigger sensitivity. I see lots of crap dealing with the general public before and have no tolerance for BS.

I also found out that this woman has a long history of doing this and screwing over the man once he figures out what is going on.

Conor

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cwatkin


Also, while mine had the temporary restraining order against me, she was constantly following me around trying to entrap me. I would pull into a parking lot and see her sitting in her car with the engine running. One time with the weather being cold and snowy with like 40mph winds, she was outside her car just standing next to it right after I pulled in. Then she started following me into the gym where I work out. Luckily I found out that the ID cards used to enter log who enters the facility along with a timestamp so I followed up with police reports about her behavior and attempts to entrap me. Basically this is one evil conniving manipulative person. It was so apparent what she was doing and I guess the cops talked to her as she laid off not long after I filed my reports.

It was so obvious she was using the system as a weapon but the system doesn't have a good way to handle that situation.

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I would be curious to hear of ANY mail order/ instant wife based relationship that didn't have a short shelf life. I would be very suspicious of any women who would be trying to pin me down after only a short time of going out.
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Can't believe someone woke this thread up. The current gf gives me guilt trips, smart ass, older than me (which isn't bad thing) but has no substance to her, very rocky right now. Last but not least no memory it's like goes in one ear and out the other. I feel to bad to kick her out since she doesn't have job and nowhere to go.
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Hanuman
Jun 8 2015, 05:07 AM
i would like to appologize to my wife who found this post and was hurt by the comments made i ment it as a joke and didnt intend to hurt her. i publicly embarrassed her and i am publicly appologizing for it. honey im sorry for the heart ache this caused you.
You forgot to clean your grounds, didn't you? (or at least clear out your history in your web browser)
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Stubby79
Jun 8 2015, 10:54 PM
Hanuman
Jun 8 2015, 05:07 AM
i would like to appologize to my wife who found this post and was hurt by the comments made i ment it as a joke and didnt intend to hurt her. i publicly embarrassed her and i am publicly appologizing for it. honey im sorry for the heart ache this caused you.
You forgot to clean your grounds, didn't you? (or at least clear out your history in your web browser)
That doesn't even work sometimes, sometimes they got a friend to search the web for anything a spouse might put online.
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